Time and space are not yours either to give or to take away. They are given by destiny. Do not grasp and cling. Do not beg someone to stay. Accept his or her absence just as you accept his or her presence. The choice is not yours, to linger or to wander. All those who linger are not in need of solace. All those who wander are not lost. What is yours, is yours – destined. What is not, is not – also destined.