Drink lots of water. Wear perfume every day, boldly. Moisturise your skin. Sleep as many hours as you are active. Listen to new music. Trust your feelings, your heart, rather than your mind. Treat others as you would have them treat you. You need not be cautious with others, but be careful. It might not be obvious what they are going through. Concealment and invention have their place as do honesty and reality. Interest, fascination, infatuation, obsession, all lie in mystery rather than identity. Within the realm of mystery, love, true love, exists at that moment, that place, where truth and magic collide. Be grateful rather than blameful. Be joyful rather than glum. And last but not least, eat lots and lots of hot, spicy food.